New Patreon Site up!

My Patreon site is up and running with 5 tiers to choose from. Patreon Link Why become a Patron? When you become a patron you get access to my patron only blog. Different tiers grant you more rewards and I promise you they won’t disappoint.  You’re monthly Patron will… When you become a patron youContinue reading “New Patreon Site up!”

Crop Tops and Full Bellies

This photo is from my last full day in Pittsburgh and my heart was as full and happy as my belly. 🌟Coming from someone who grew up in the 90’s, crop tops were the rag back then. But I was considered a chubby girl a prepubescent teen with big boobs and was “not allowed” toContinue reading “Crop Tops and Full Bellies”

Bucket lists and Living in the Moment

You don’t need a bucket list. You don’t need a list to remind you of everything you believe you have to do before you leave this world. Do things for the sake of wanting to do them and if you don’t, guess what you were still here you lived your life. Death is inevitable. SomeContinue reading “Bucket lists and Living in the Moment”

When you look at these two photos there is nothing different between them. The before is the same as the after. 🌟 The other day I saw a story by @fyeahmfabello that spoke about a post where a thinner woman posted photos comparing her body between being flexed and relaxed and how it can beContinue reading

Count Back From Ten…

There is something about surgery that changes you. Maybe it’s the trauma maybe it’s the anesthesia. Does it depend on the kind of surgery you have that depends on how you change. Is it a chemical balance? I don’t know all I know is that I was different.

Black & Blue

There is so much to my story besides being another statistic. Abuse, rape, assault, they can come from people we love that we thought wouldn’t hurt us. We need to end this stigma of people who are abused, raped, etc are victims. I am not a victim I am a goddamn survivor. My story isContinue reading “Black & Blue”